Research
Evidence Based Model of Care
The Repair Project, a program of DRW, is grounded in evidence-based research and clinical best practices. High-conflict relationships require more than insight—they need structure, skill-building, and accountability to create lasting change.
This model draws from research-supported approaches including CBT, DBT, trauma-informed care, and family systems theory. These frameworks focus on improving emotional regulation, communication, and awareness of patterns that drive conflict.
By using a structured, research-informed process of deconstruction and reconstruction, The Repair Project supports meaningful, practical change. Grounding this work in research ensures services are effective, ethical, and aligned with current standards of care.
Foundational High-Conflict Conceptualization
Landmark Research
-
Bill Eddy
-
“High Conflict People in Legal Disputes” (2006)
-
Introduces patterns: blame, all-or-nothing thinking, unmanaged emotions, extreme behaviors
-
-
Janet R. Johnston
-
Johnston, J.R. (1994, 2000, 2005)
-
“High-conflict divorce” research defining persistent conflict vs typical divorce
-
Impact of Conflict on Children
Landmark Researchers
-
E. Mark Cummings
-
Patrick T. Davies
Key Articles:
-
Cummings, E.M., & Davies, P.T. (2010)
-
Marital Conflict and Children: An Emotional Security Perspective
-
➤ Found that emotional security is the central mechanism linking conflict to child outcomes
-
-
Davies, P.T., & Cummings, E.M. (1994)
-
“Marital conflict and child adjustment: An emotional security hypothesis”
-
➤ Children’s distress is driven by perceived threat, not just exposure
-
-
Harold, G.T., & Sellers, R. (2018)
-
“Interparental conflict and youth psychopathology”
-
➤ Strong link to anxiety, depression, and behavioral issues
-
High-Conflict Co-Parenting & Divorce
Key Articles:
-
Johnston, J.R., Roseby, V., & Kuehnle, K. (2009)
-
In the Name of the Child
-
➤ High-conflict families often:
-
Entrench in blame
-
Struggle with co-parenting communication
-
Pull children into conflict
-
-
-
Kelly, J.B. (2007)
-
“Children’s living arrangements following separation and divorce”
-
➤ Emphasizes structured parenting plans and reduced exposure to conflict
-
-
Emery, R.E. (2012)
-
Renegotiating Family Relationships
-
➤ Highlights difference between legal resolution vs emotional resolution
-
Emotional Regulation & Neurobiology
Landmark Researchers
-
Daniel J. Siegel
-
The Developing Mind
-
➤ Explains:
-
Amygdala hijack
-
Loss of prefrontal functioning during conflict
-
-
-
Joseph LeDoux
-
Research on threat detection and emotional reactivity
-
Attachment & Relationship Dynamics
Landmark Researchers
-
John Bowlby
-
Mary Ainsworth
-
Mikulincer, M., & Shaver, P.R. (2007)
-
Attachment in Adulthood
-
➤ Links insecure attachment to:
-
Conflict escalation
-
Withdrawal
-
Emotional dysregulation
-
-
Conflict Cycles & Communication Breakdown
Landmark Researcher
-
Gottman, J.M. (1994, 1999)
-
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
-
Identified:
-
Criticism
-
Defensiveness
-
Contempt
-
Stonewalling
-
-
These map directly onto high-conflict interaction patterns
Evidence-Based Interventions
🔹 DBT (Emotion Regulation)
-
Marsha M. Linehan
-
Linehan (1993)
-
➤ Supports:
-
Distress tolerance
-
Emotion regulation
-
Interpersonal effectiveness
-
-
🔹 CBT (Cognitive Distortions)
-
Aaron T. Beck
-
Beck (1976)
-
➤ Identifies:
-
Cognitive distortions driving conflict
-
-
🔹 Family Systems
-
Murray Bowen
-
➤ Concepts:
-
Triangulation
-
Emotional reactivity
-
Differentiation
-
-
Why Insight Alone Isn’t Enough
-
Prochaska & DiClemente (1983)
-
Stages of Change Model
-
➤ Behavior change requires:
-
Action + repetition, not just awareness
-
-
-
Kahneman, D. (2011)
-
Thinking, Fast and Slow
-
➤ Emotional (fast) system dominates under stress
-
Structural & Court-Informed Approaches
-
AFCC (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts) Guidelines
-
Emphasize:
-
Structured parenting plans
-
Reduced direct conflict
-
Child-focused interventions
-
-
-
Drozd, L., & Olesen, N. (2004)
-
“Is it abuse, alienation, or high conflict?”
-
➤ Differentiates dynamics in high-conflict cases
-
Repair Project Phases Research Alignment
Awareness- Psychoeducation (CBT, attachment)
Accountability- Behavior change theory
Deconstruction- Family systems + cognitive restructuring
Reconstruction- Skills training (DBT, communication)
Scaffolding- Behavioral rehearsal + structure
Stabilization- Maintenance (relapse prevention models)